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luvguru



Joined: 05 Jan 2007
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 06, 2007 2:33 pm    Post subject: Choosing between two...don't be confused Reply with quote

Look...It's happened. You like two girls, maybe you're going out with one of them, maybe they both like you, maybe they don't. It's just that they're waiting for you to make that decision their waiting, and you'd better choose one before you lose both.
I will explain how come up with this situation
Analyze your relationship with both girls. What do you actually want from each of the girls? Just a physical relation? Marriage? A fun time? Soul mate? This is a very important decision, or you'll be stuck with something you don't want.
What does one girl have that the other one doesn't? If both are good looking, which one do you enjoy being with more? Okay look, we all know the hotter one usually wins, but if you're unhappy with that boring, one-faceted girl, it's not worth it.
Make a table with one column for each girl, and list as many good qualities as you can think of.
Locate any qualities that both girls share, and cross them off the list. You are now left with a list of unique qualities that each girl has. Review these qualities and compare which ones you like best. The girl with the most and best unique qualities is most likely the one you should choose.
Once you make your decision, be direct about it. Girls love it when you're direct. Go up to her and just tell her, "I can't bear to be without you." She'll melt. They go for that stuff, once in a while.

Tips
If you aren't satisfied with the steps above, pick whichever girl you have the most in common with.
Let the other girl down easy. Talk to her and explain the predicament. The worse thing you can do is ignore her or bottle the feelings.
If you've chosen already and believe you have chosen wrongly, go back and fix your mistakes. It'll take some time and some bonding, but you'll be better for it.

Warnings
Don't let the girls know you are observing them for unique traits! They will certainly put on a show if they know you are watching. You need to determine their real qualities.
You're unlikely to be able to see both of them at the same time. If you play with both, you may lose them both. Play one, and keep something up your sleeve should it fall through. Don't lose both girls needlessly, when one will do.
You can't have strong feelings for one person while you're going out with someone else. It'll ruin the relationship you do have.



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Fills my nose, my head, and my brain.
The springtime showers soak my dress,
and toes tingle with a grassy caress.
The beauty of this day is lost to me,
As the deaf man hears not the melody.
For all Nature's wonders seem so dim,
When I am here, standing next to him.

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deconsex



Joined: 16 Jun 2008
Posts: 48

PostPosted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 5:04 pm    Post subject: Choosing between two...don't be confused Reply with quote Reply with quote

Hi sorry I cannot help you because I don't have any idea about this matter.

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amsotera



Joined: 19 Sep 2008
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 5:21 pm    Post subject: Re: Choosing between two...don't be confused Reply with quote

Hello, this was the right thing that you have done. I don’t think that you were wrong.
All the best!


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talkdate



Joined: 06 Feb 2009
Posts: 6

PostPosted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 2:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

well, that may happen to anyone out there. all you need to choose the right one as per your desire for a partner.

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simo92



Joined: 09 Apr 2009
Posts: 10

PostPosted: Fri Apr 10, 2009 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi there,

thank you for your little tips,well I don't have 2 girls and im inteding to have 2 girls simply because I have 1 heart lol


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Joined: 26 Jun 2009
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 9:57 am    Post subject: Russian marriage agency Reply with quote

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