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luvguru

Joined: 05 Jan 2007 Posts: 5
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Posted: Fri Jan 05, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject: How to get noticed by girls?...(Nice tips for newbies) |
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Before Going for a date or having friendship with a girl there are much more questions started taking over and you started to loose your confidence. I just want to explain some of these...Hope it will beneficial
The most important question is What girls look for?
Here is your solution:
A girl's mind works in strange ways-as if you didn't know-and the things that attract them to men are mostly NOT what you expect . Here's what they are( not necessarily in order of importance ) :--
Honesty
Sense of humor
Eye contact
Smiles
Personality
Confidence
Maturity
Sensitivity
Looks (this one is definitely in the right place in order of importance!)
Ever noticed how a girl goes completely berserk when she finds out you've lied . What's all the fuss about? you think . The big fuss they make tells you something crucial -- HONESTY is very very important to girls. Remember this if you are naturally honest and use your honesty to full advantage. Be honest with her even if your natural instinct in a particular situation is not to be . If you are naturally dishonest conceal this at all costs-you're probably good at that anyway!
A good sense of humor is amazingly attractive to most girls . They want a man who is FUN to be with .If you can make a girl laugh you're 90% there . If you have a good sense of humor-use it at every appropriate opportunity . If you haven't- WORK on it - and develop one . This can be done - watch those that have this and use their techniques - try the one that suits your personality best-experiment .
EYE-CONTACT is in my opinion the single most important factor in your success and for this reason I will go into this in more detail later . (similarly with SMILES )
A strong personality draws most girls . They really do go for a man who knows what he wants to do - no matter what anybody else thinks about him .
Girls are also drawn to confident men who are assertive , positive and don't dither . If you are less than confident - don't show it . LOOK CONFIDENT . How do you do this? TRY-study body language , either get a book on this or just observe & imitate any confident men you see around you . Stand up straight ,never fidget , head up high , slow ,steady movements and above all EYE to EYE contact at all times. You know the things I mean -observe & learn & apply .
Maturity is a big turn on with most girls . This is one reason that quite a lot find older men attractive . So it usually pays to act pretty sensibly when you're with girls ( not to the extent that you lose your sense of humor and fun of course ). Drinking beer until it comes out of your ears, falling over senseless and going on the rampage might be a good laugh when you're with the lads but it won't impress her. She might laugh but inside she'll be eaten up with embarrassment.
A lot of men think that girls are turned on by very macho men - but most girls think completely the OPPOSITE . Girls like their men to be sensitive . Don't take this too far , girls want their men to act like men but try and mix being a man with being caring and sensitive . A heady cocktail that girls find irresistible ! If you find something 'nice' or 'pretty' or something upsets you - tell her. You'll be surprised how much she warms to you . Especially if the something nice or pretty is about her!!
Whilst girls obviously go for good looks and a decent body it comes surprisingly LOW on THEIR list of priorities . By itself it doesn't turn them on like it does men . Ask a girl if she is turned on by these things , she will probably say yes but deep down a girl knows she can't find any man a turn-on unless he CARES for her too.
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The bond of two peoples love cannot be broken,
Bend it, twist it, do what you will with it;
If it is true love then the sun will rise another day.
- Cody Heller - |
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pedro_9k6k
Joined: 31 Mar 2007 Posts: 52
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Posted: Thu Oct 11, 2007 1:04 pm Post subject: Re: How to get noticed by girls |
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Hi,
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roony56
Joined: 04 Mar 2008 Posts: 36
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Posted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 11:29 am Post subject: Some tips for the dating |
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Thanks for the information ,i will care your tips ,i have some tips for the dating:->
1- Avoid dating occasionally.
This result to what we call "dating fatigue". Dating is an continuous activity (until you find that perfect match) and so recharging your energies, building self-confidence and maintaining optimism levels high must be practiced. I advise that you schedule your date in time frames to regain your renewed vigor if necessary.
2 - ENJOY your date as much as possible
Always strive to enjoy dating activities even if it shows signs of not being compatible with your date. Remember, this is one aspect of socializing and grab the opportunity by spending time in the company of new acquaintances who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The truth is, most people are interesting in a way and this may be the chance to look for new friends!
3 - Never divulge your entire being on a first date.
Basically, we tend to be more interested with individuals who are mysterious and the thrill of the chase when dating. Therefore, if you are looking for a more serious relationship, sex is out of the agenda in a first date. As your date progress and the person starts to fall for you within a reasonable time, then there is a higher percentage that real love may bloom.
4 - Do join a quality Internet dating community
Expand your network. Join quality dating sites wherein upon registration, the site gets extensive of not just your personal preferences but with the preferences you wanted from your ideal partner. Beware of dating sites that shows a lot of gorgeous girls but after joining you find that these are just dummy members. One of the dating sites that have caught my attention was this one: [color=darkblue:0dc672d86a]http://www.thesinglesnetwork.com[/color:0dc672d86a], it gives you the option to choose any US state preference you plan to build your dating network. For those who wanted to go across the globe, there are dating domains from that site to choose from. But before looking for a foreign date, I advise you to study a brief culture background. Most of these relationships go down the drain due to culture incompatibility.
5 –Expand your dating network and practice socializing skills
Once you have set your network, take time and check your mail occasionally. Even if you never dated online, it is a start to boost your confidence and spirits, allowing you to practice your opening lines and conversation skills. Internet dating is really fun, adventurous and secure. It introduces you to the world of dating safely and gently.
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roony56
Joined: 04 Mar 2008 Posts: 36
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2008 12:02 pm Post subject: |
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yes you are correct saying that some thin like
Honesty
Sense of humor
Eye contact
Smiles
Personality
Confidence
Maturity
Sensitivity
are the thing that girls look in the boy but some time do you want to know why girls flirt with us ,and some dating advice for man,if you want lookup that thing then see in the link . |
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deconsex
Joined: 16 Jun 2008 Posts: 44
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 4:11 pm Post subject: Dating/Love/Marriage Advice |
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Yes! I agree with your great advice, it really works for me.
Thanks for your information!
http://www.localdatingtips.com |
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